Tuesday, July 22, 2014
Everything is Wrong.
I am living in a society where fat/plus size/ overweight etc people are sins. People stares at us like we are some ruined experiment done by God. We are look down upon, laugh upon, hated upon all because we are different. We are called ugly, disgusting, pig, lazy, just to name a few. Society don't treat us like human. To society, being size 0, walking down town like some ultra skinny skeleton is beauty. Looking like some zombie from God knows where is beauty and healthy. If we put on 1 kg people freak out! Whose gonna marry you! You look so ugly! What are you eating! Look at you! You gonna die fast! Don't you care about yourself?! Those are some of the questions we encounter. The question is, do skinny people are that healthy? Just because we are fat, it doesn't mean society has the rights to mock us to our lowest level. You think just because out heart is covered by extra fats we have no feelings? We are your experimental toy? Didn't God created fat people and thin people together? Yes we have lower metabolism rates but that doesn't mean we are not God's child. Then people will tell us to loose some weight, right, we will do it because we wanna stay healthy! But there goes some family member who doesn't encourage but mock you, bringing you so down that we literally loose our self esteems. 'I wish to see you thin' is what you can hear. But instead of saying ' don't give up, jog! You can do it!' Family will be saying ' you are so lazy! Fat and lazy! So ugly! So embarrass to bring you out' and how on this bloody earth you are saying that you are helping us to lead a healthier life. Society claims that they are always right! But the matter of fact, you guys are the worst. Just because a fat girl has a thin husband, society will spread lovely gossips. Society itself doesn't know how accept people for who they are. They rather go for physical. Just because we are fat it doesn't mean that we are lazy, dumb or blind or even deaf to hear and see how people talk or stare at us. Look we love dressing up too. We will wear clothes that we like, some may not like it, some may like it. But who is society to judge us. We are not walking naked. We are being bold and brave to wear something that gives us confidence to walk with our heads high up. We are not wearing those tiny cut off here and there clothes. We wear something cover up. If whatever we wear is wrong, society, you tell what should we wear? We are after all human. We may be different, but we have what skinny people have. We have a pair of lungs, a pair of eyes, ears, nose etc. we are who we are.
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